This last week has been pretty amazing. I had the pleasure of meeting an amazing woman who has joined Mentoring For Free and I see a VERY bright future for her! I am so excited to have her on the team as she will continue to inspire me. I also came across a quote that I simply love and that reminded me again why Mentoring For Free is such a great system and why the free ebook Success in 10 Steps has helped me in so many ways. The quote is:
"Many people like to think that they'll find balance AFTER they find success. But in reality, achieving balance IS success." ~ Brian Koslow
The very first chapter in Success in 10 Steps talks about Heavy Hitters in network marketing. The fact that they've lied to you!! This quote hit home when I saw it the other day and brought back a HUGE flashback I had with a heavy hitter in a previous MLM company I was with. It was my first MLM company, so I had no idea. However, when I had one conversation in particular with this flashy and very successful network marketer, my gut said RUN!!! I had only been with the company a few months, and started out VERY strong! I had many people excited about this new venture I was getting into and even without knowing the products, they trusted me and were ready to sign up. I had quit my recruiting job and was now spending MORE time with this home-based business than I did on the job I quit. It was getting crazy. Spending more time, spending WAY too much money, and not getting much as far as paychecks. I was very frustrated.
The "heavy hitter" was in town and attending one of our meetings. I was so excited to sit down with him and discuss what I was doing and see what I needed to change to improve the income. My first question was how to BALANCE everything. I went into network marketing to have a more balanced life with my husband and kids, to have more time with them, yet still work and bring in some money. I'll never forget what he said. He told me I needed to realize that I may have to live the next year or two unbalanced in order to provide that for my family down the road...in order to make the money that will give us more time with eachother. Now, this guy had a kid and a wife, but he was travelling ALL of the time. And he had been doing it for I think 5 years. So I'm looking at him going, sure you have a flashy Rolex that probably costs more than my car and drive a car that cost as much as my house almost...but does your daughter know you? Do you know her?
So I said to him..."I'm not willing to do that, I want balance, I want MORE time with my kids now, not when they are teenagers and want nothing to do with me". Know what he did? Said alright, it's been great meeting you, but I'm tired. He got up, put his jacket on and our conversation was OVER! I knew then and there my gut was right. This guy wasn't in this business to help me or anyone else, just himself completely. Once he realized I wasn't willing to spend every hour possible on the phone or doing presentations to get more people signed up in our business, I wasn't worth his time. Talk about a slap in the face! That was the beginning of the end for me in that company. I had already felt like it wasn't right, I was buying all this product and training and marketing and not seeing any return. I was losing distributors like crazy because they were doing the same...they were just smarter and got out a lot faster than I did!
Then about 6 months later I decided to open this free ebook someone on Facebook had sent to me. I had noticed it before and thought, "yeah right it's free, nothing to do with MLM is free". But I opened it and started reading it. And right in the first chapter Michael says on page 13, "It's not your fault. Let that sink in. How does it make you feel? I don't care what any heavy hitter has ever told you. Fact is they've lied to you. Doesn't that make you angry?"
The story I just shared with you is one of MANY that make me very angry about my first MLM experience. I'm sure you can relate! My hope is to get this information to as many people as possible before they have a lot to be angry about. This business is awesome, you'll meet some of the most amazing people in it who will inspire you. You can make a lot of money with the right 5 pillar company and the right system.
If you are in MLM and struggling or thinking about trying it. Please, please, please read this free ebook at http://mnicholson.successin10steps.com/?mad=48381 and save yourself a great deal of frustration and anger. It really is free and a great book to keep in your library!
Here's a great quote from the ebook, "Success leaves footprints in the sand that you can follow. If you can't follow the footprints, you must be on the wrong beach." ~ Michael Dlouhy (pg. 12) It's a great quote because if you are in a company that does not have a system that is easy to duplicate, it won't be easy to get your downline to duplicate either and you'll be spinning your wheels. Mentoring For Free is a system that works no matter what MLM company you are with. You can learn more about it at http://www.mnicholson.mentoringforfree.com/
Monday, September 13, 2010
Monday, August 16, 2010
What a Crazy Summer...Creating Great Memories!
This has been a summer I will never forget. It made me appreciate the time we get with family and friends and realize how fast things change! For example, Sienna (my oldest), will start kindergarten next year (2011) and we won't have the flexibility we have now to go and visit family when it's most convenient for us. But we made the most of this summer, so I decided to use this blog entry to reflect on it and appreciate it! I haven't been to my blog in a long time, but all for good reasons! Our summer has been filled with friends and family coming to visit us in Las Vegas and with a couple of trips to visit them and a lot of fun get togethers with our friends here! It's a summer that made me so thankful I have the ability to stay at home with my girls and work from home, when I can.
The girls and I were able to go spend a week in New Mexico with my family and go camping in the beautiful Colorado Rockies for the 4th of July. Those are memories that they will remember forever, and so will I. Unfortunately, my husband had to stay home for this trip. It was a great getaway for us in the heat of the summer in Vegas. The girls could play outside pretty much all day long and I was able to catch up with my family. I am SO thankful for my family and for the fact that I am blessed with the time to see them right now.
We recently spent a week and a half in Connecticut, where my husbands' family lives. That was great too. I hate that our families live so far away from us and from eachother...however, the bright side is that our girls get to see so many beautiful and amazing places because of it. So we make the most of it! Camping and fishing in Colorado, and the beach and zoo in Rhode Island! I look forward to when they are older and we can take them to Boston and New York City. Growing up in New Mexico, those are places I never thought I'd see...but met my husband and got the chance to live there and now go back and show our girls what awesome places they are!
Now our vacations are over and everyone elses are too, so time to get back to a routine! I'm excited though, I'm still able to spend quality time with my husband and girls while I get back to a home-based business that is enjoyable and rewarding. This is so much better than having to go back to a 9-5 job (if not more hours) that I really hate and that pulls me away from the people who mean the most to me. I love the time I get with my friends and our kids, building memories they'll never forget. But I'm also very excited to get back to work and back to introducing more people to the wonderful network marketing industry and how to do it in a way that works for them! I have finally found a job where I can really balance my work and my family.
Having time to take trips like this with my family and the time to spend with those who mean the most to me reminds me of why I have made the plan to stay out of the corporate world. I don't want to go back to the job where I have to work when I'm told and take vacation when I'm told. Or worry if I'm going to be laid off. I have found my Plan B in network marketing and even though it's in it's early stages, I have the determination to make it work! I have an amazing success story to share. Even after Walter & Julie Reade got involved in M-L-M, they had years of failure. Then they managed to turn it all around with the Mentoring For Free system. Read their story here if you're interested, http://mnicholson.mentoringforfree.com/zSUCCESS_Reade.php
I hope you enjoy my story and Walter and Julie's and hope you have a wonderful day!!
The girls and I were able to go spend a week in New Mexico with my family and go camping in the beautiful Colorado Rockies for the 4th of July. Those are memories that they will remember forever, and so will I. Unfortunately, my husband had to stay home for this trip. It was a great getaway for us in the heat of the summer in Vegas. The girls could play outside pretty much all day long and I was able to catch up with my family. I am SO thankful for my family and for the fact that I am blessed with the time to see them right now.
We recently spent a week and a half in Connecticut, where my husbands' family lives. That was great too. I hate that our families live so far away from us and from eachother...however, the bright side is that our girls get to see so many beautiful and amazing places because of it. So we make the most of it! Camping and fishing in Colorado, and the beach and zoo in Rhode Island! I look forward to when they are older and we can take them to Boston and New York City. Growing up in New Mexico, those are places I never thought I'd see...but met my husband and got the chance to live there and now go back and show our girls what awesome places they are!
Now our vacations are over and everyone elses are too, so time to get back to a routine! I'm excited though, I'm still able to spend quality time with my husband and girls while I get back to a home-based business that is enjoyable and rewarding. This is so much better than having to go back to a 9-5 job (if not more hours) that I really hate and that pulls me away from the people who mean the most to me. I love the time I get with my friends and our kids, building memories they'll never forget. But I'm also very excited to get back to work and back to introducing more people to the wonderful network marketing industry and how to do it in a way that works for them! I have finally found a job where I can really balance my work and my family.
Having time to take trips like this with my family and the time to spend with those who mean the most to me reminds me of why I have made the plan to stay out of the corporate world. I don't want to go back to the job where I have to work when I'm told and take vacation when I'm told. Or worry if I'm going to be laid off. I have found my Plan B in network marketing and even though it's in it's early stages, I have the determination to make it work! I have an amazing success story to share. Even after Walter & Julie Reade got involved in M-L-M, they had years of failure. Then they managed to turn it all around with the Mentoring For Free system. Read their story here if you're interested, http://mnicholson.mentoringforfree.com/zSUCCESS_Reade.php
I hope you enjoy my story and Walter and Julie's and hope you have a wonderful day!!
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Promote YOU, Not Your MLM Company!
I've been going through some amazing training with Mentoring For Free, but there's one point that has already made the biggest change in my home-based business...don't promote my network marketing company, promote me! Don't promote my MLM company products, promote me! Why? I was just in a training call and they said there are now somewhere around 3,000 companies out there claiming to be network marketing companies. This is the most basic reason as to why you should promote you and not your MLM company, why would you want to have competition with 3,000 other companies. Then you are comparing your compensation plan to theirs, your product to theirs, your upline to theirs, and on and on! I'd much rather sell myself and the system and leadership and coaching I can offer someone first and foremost! I like to think I am much more competitive this way:)
Second, put yourself in your prospects shoes. As for myself, I prefer someone to approach me and find out a little about who I am and what I'm looking for and WHY I'm looking for it before they just start in on me about this new amazing company where I can work only 3-5 hours per week to start my home-based business on a part-time basis and very quickly start making $10,000 or $20,000 per week if I'm coachable and teachable. You know what? I fell for it once and sadly the people I was sponsored by did too. I can unfortunately say, none of them or me made it to that $10,000 or $20,000 per week...not even a few hundred per week. Why, because we were being taught the recruit, recruit, recruit system to not care so much about the people, just get them to sign up and get them to sign people up, etc. You know that system, I'm sure many of you reading this have been there! The one where you work so hard to get friends on Facebook who love the positive things you have to say whether through quotes or your personal life, yet once you start promoting your MLM company it's all over and you see your friends list going down almost as fast as it's going up. The worst part of this is the people "de-friending" you are the warm market people, the ones you have known for years, maybe even some family members start ignoring what you have to say! I wasn't comfortable with that system and it wasn't who I am. Most people, I think will agree with me on this one!
Now I promote myself! For those friends and followers who are interested in network marketing, I can now offer a system for anyone to use, no matter what network marketing company they are in that is FREE! I can show them that I truly do care about their success because I'm not pushing a company or specific opportunity on them! I'm finding out their "why" and helping them move forward in their own journey, and I love that we get to do go through this journey together!
As I've found through Mentoring For Free, just as the free eBook states, you need a System That Works! "...you need to do lead generation, prospect follow-up, sponsoring and training. If you can do them all in one system, so much the better." This is EXACTLY what Mentoring For Free offers everyone who chooses to use it! Not only a system for you to use to work smarter and become more successful, but a system you can get all of your team using so as a team you are working smarter and becoming more successful together!
I've mentioned my "why's" before for doing network marketing and because I feel so passionately about them, I'll keep mentioning them! One is to help others reach their own success. MLM is an industry, when done right and with a 5 Pillar Company, where you not only reach your own goals and "why's", but you help others do the same over and over again! (See http://mnicholson.5pillarstosuccess.com/ to buy the CD or ask me for the link to listen for FREE to learn what makes a 5 Pillar Company). Pay it forward, and the best way to do this is to promote yourself and offer Mentoring For Free to anyone who wants to do network marketing. Download your Free eBook at http://mnicholson.successin10steps.com/ and see how it will change your life and your business and your relationship with others!
I hope to hear from you and begin a journey to our success together!!
Second, put yourself in your prospects shoes. As for myself, I prefer someone to approach me and find out a little about who I am and what I'm looking for and WHY I'm looking for it before they just start in on me about this new amazing company where I can work only 3-5 hours per week to start my home-based business on a part-time basis and very quickly start making $10,000 or $20,000 per week if I'm coachable and teachable. You know what? I fell for it once and sadly the people I was sponsored by did too. I can unfortunately say, none of them or me made it to that $10,000 or $20,000 per week...not even a few hundred per week. Why, because we were being taught the recruit, recruit, recruit system to not care so much about the people, just get them to sign up and get them to sign people up, etc. You know that system, I'm sure many of you reading this have been there! The one where you work so hard to get friends on Facebook who love the positive things you have to say whether through quotes or your personal life, yet once you start promoting your MLM company it's all over and you see your friends list going down almost as fast as it's going up. The worst part of this is the people "de-friending" you are the warm market people, the ones you have known for years, maybe even some family members start ignoring what you have to say! I wasn't comfortable with that system and it wasn't who I am. Most people, I think will agree with me on this one!
Now I promote myself! For those friends and followers who are interested in network marketing, I can now offer a system for anyone to use, no matter what network marketing company they are in that is FREE! I can show them that I truly do care about their success because I'm not pushing a company or specific opportunity on them! I'm finding out their "why" and helping them move forward in their own journey, and I love that we get to do go through this journey together!
As I've found through Mentoring For Free, just as the free eBook states, you need a System That Works! "...you need to do lead generation, prospect follow-up, sponsoring and training. If you can do them all in one system, so much the better." This is EXACTLY what Mentoring For Free offers everyone who chooses to use it! Not only a system for you to use to work smarter and become more successful, but a system you can get all of your team using so as a team you are working smarter and becoming more successful together!
I've mentioned my "why's" before for doing network marketing and because I feel so passionately about them, I'll keep mentioning them! One is to help others reach their own success. MLM is an industry, when done right and with a 5 Pillar Company, where you not only reach your own goals and "why's", but you help others do the same over and over again! (See http://mnicholson.5pillarstosuccess.com/ to buy the CD or ask me for the link to listen for FREE to learn what makes a 5 Pillar Company). Pay it forward, and the best way to do this is to promote yourself and offer Mentoring For Free to anyone who wants to do network marketing. Download your Free eBook at http://mnicholson.successin10steps.com/ and see how it will change your life and your business and your relationship with others!
I hope to hear from you and begin a journey to our success together!!
Monday, June 21, 2010
Why Work From Home? To OWN my LIFE!!!
I feel so blessed to OWN my life! What does that mean? Well, to me it means that I make the decisions about what I do and how I do it and have taken control so that a boss or company isn't controlling it for me! I am working so hard, yet having fun, building a home-based business so that I call the shots. No more worries about when I can take time off to hang out with my family. I'm able work while the girls are sleeping because that's best for me! The economy is so hard right now for so many people. My eyes have been opened to network marketing...the good and the ugly! Most importantly what I've learned is that it does work if you work at it and have a system to show you how! If you are tired of working for someone else controlling your life and want to own your life, you can too!!
Thankfully I found Mentoring for Free early on...wish it had been about 8 months sooner, but better late than never! And now I'm not only learning how to do it right, I've found a great 5 Pillar Company, a great team of mentors and the ability to help others...hopefully finding more people who are just getting started before being burned the way so many are in this industry. But for those who have been burned, I can't wait to help them! It's a GREAT industry, you just have to find that 5 Pillar Company and not one where the heavy hitters are taking advantage of you. What is a 5 Pillar Company? Check out http://mnicholson.5pillarstosuccess.com/ for more details and it will probably change your life the way it did mine! I'm now moving forward with my business and feel great sharing it with others, instead of feeling stagnant and frustrated!
The past three weeks have been pretty crazy between different friends and family being in town, bar-b-ques with friends, entertaining kids for the summer, etc. However, as busy as it's been, it's made me appreciate it all SO much more! I love my life...I am blessed with the most amazing husband, daughters, parents and in-laws, family and friends both here in Vegas and those who live away. I love the fact that I do work for myself now and especially now that I've found a group of mentors and a system that is there for ME...not for the top 2% to make all of the money while the rest of us are so frustrated. Getting to spend this kind of time with family and friends reminds me of how important it is to me to work from home!
Now it's back to a week of working out and working on my business before the girls and I drive with my mom the 9 hours back to Aztec, NM. Looking forward to hanging out with my brother and sister and their families and the girls getting to play with all of their cousins! Then we are off to camp in Silverton, CO for the 4th of July...can't wait! Hopefully Scott will be able to join us during his days off?! But then we fly to Connecticut at the end of the month to visit his family, some well deserved time off for him!!
I have an amazing life, this blog is just to put it all down in writing! My husband is so amazing, always so supportive of me and our girls...always working hard to provide the best for us. I can't wait until I can help him in providing more income to take some of the stress off of him...and I will!!! Our parents are always there for us and our kids, loving and supporting everything we do. Wish we lived closer to them, but at least we get a lot of quality time with them throughout the year, and I'm SO thankful for every minute of it! I am so thankful for all I have been blessed with. Never take it for granted!
Thankfully I found Mentoring for Free early on...wish it had been about 8 months sooner, but better late than never! And now I'm not only learning how to do it right, I've found a great 5 Pillar Company, a great team of mentors and the ability to help others...hopefully finding more people who are just getting started before being burned the way so many are in this industry. But for those who have been burned, I can't wait to help them! It's a GREAT industry, you just have to find that 5 Pillar Company and not one where the heavy hitters are taking advantage of you. What is a 5 Pillar Company? Check out http://mnicholson.5pillarstosuccess.com/ for more details and it will probably change your life the way it did mine! I'm now moving forward with my business and feel great sharing it with others, instead of feeling stagnant and frustrated!
The past three weeks have been pretty crazy between different friends and family being in town, bar-b-ques with friends, entertaining kids for the summer, etc. However, as busy as it's been, it's made me appreciate it all SO much more! I love my life...I am blessed with the most amazing husband, daughters, parents and in-laws, family and friends both here in Vegas and those who live away. I love the fact that I do work for myself now and especially now that I've found a group of mentors and a system that is there for ME...not for the top 2% to make all of the money while the rest of us are so frustrated. Getting to spend this kind of time with family and friends reminds me of how important it is to me to work from home!
Now it's back to a week of working out and working on my business before the girls and I drive with my mom the 9 hours back to Aztec, NM. Looking forward to hanging out with my brother and sister and their families and the girls getting to play with all of their cousins! Then we are off to camp in Silverton, CO for the 4th of July...can't wait! Hopefully Scott will be able to join us during his days off?! But then we fly to Connecticut at the end of the month to visit his family, some well deserved time off for him!!
I have an amazing life, this blog is just to put it all down in writing! My husband is so amazing, always so supportive of me and our girls...always working hard to provide the best for us. I can't wait until I can help him in providing more income to take some of the stress off of him...and I will!!! Our parents are always there for us and our kids, loving and supporting everything we do. Wish we lived closer to them, but at least we get a lot of quality time with them throughout the year, and I'm SO thankful for every minute of it! I am so thankful for all I have been blessed with. Never take it for granted!
Sunday, June 6, 2010
It wasn't My Fault! I found the MLM Secrets!!
For those who have been following my Blog, you have seen me go through many different transitions...and I didn't start this Blog very long ago:) But this is the reason I started this Blog. I am making alterations in my life physically, mentally and even spiritually and the journey has been amazing! Definitely a lot of ups and downs...from my excitement in running my first half marathon being smashed by a knee injury; my first network marketing experience making me feel like a HUGE failure; difficulties in weight loss and seeing how great it is when you don't give up!
Well, have I got a story for you:) As I mentioned in my last Blog, I met this amazing woman named Vikki through Facebook. This is why I LOVE Facebook...I truly have met some wonderful and inspiring people. Vikki is not only inspiring, she has given me hope and the system to make my "Why" (also shared in the previous Blog) become a reality! Now, because I feel SO strongly about my "why", I wasn't going to give up and definitely won't be giving up now!
I read this free eBook that changed my life! I felt like I was a failure in my first network marketing company, but was searching for the right group of people to help me turn that around. I did! If you have tried network marketing or thought about it, but have been afraid of failure...you MUST read this! If you have been told by your upline, like I have many times, "Make a list of your friends and family. Call them up. Get 'em into the business. You need to hear 100 'No's for every 'Yes'." Guess what, they are LYING!! There are other ways that work better!
Want to know how? Read this http://mnicholson.bigmlmsecrets.com/?mad=47999 Remember...it's FREE! I really didn't believe it at first, nothing seems to be free in network marketing...but here is something amazing! Not just a great eBook that gives you MANY "aha" moments...but a wonderful group of mentors who are there to mentor you for FREE. Doesn't matter what company you are with, they don't want to know, they just want to help you find the success in your business!
Unbelievable huh? Well, it's true and I really hope if you are feeling uneasy or like a failure or getting that bad feeling in your gut that the company you are working in just doesn't feel right to you or seem to be working to make you that residual income you want so badly, that you will read http://mnicholson.bigmlmsecrets.com/?mad=47999
I can't wait to hear what you think:) Comments are ALWAYS welcome!! Hope you all have a wonderful week!
Well, have I got a story for you:) As I mentioned in my last Blog, I met this amazing woman named Vikki through Facebook. This is why I LOVE Facebook...I truly have met some wonderful and inspiring people. Vikki is not only inspiring, she has given me hope and the system to make my "Why" (also shared in the previous Blog) become a reality! Now, because I feel SO strongly about my "why", I wasn't going to give up and definitely won't be giving up now!
I read this free eBook that changed my life! I felt like I was a failure in my first network marketing company, but was searching for the right group of people to help me turn that around. I did! If you have tried network marketing or thought about it, but have been afraid of failure...you MUST read this! If you have been told by your upline, like I have many times, "Make a list of your friends and family. Call them up. Get 'em into the business. You need to hear 100 'No's for every 'Yes'." Guess what, they are LYING!! There are other ways that work better!
Want to know how? Read this http://mnicholson.bigmlmsecrets.com/?mad=47999 Remember...it's FREE! I really didn't believe it at first, nothing seems to be free in network marketing...but here is something amazing! Not just a great eBook that gives you MANY "aha" moments...but a wonderful group of mentors who are there to mentor you for FREE. Doesn't matter what company you are with, they don't want to know, they just want to help you find the success in your business!
Unbelievable huh? Well, it's true and I really hope if you are feeling uneasy or like a failure or getting that bad feeling in your gut that the company you are working in just doesn't feel right to you or seem to be working to make you that residual income you want so badly, that you will read http://mnicholson.bigmlmsecrets.com/?mad=47999
I can't wait to hear what you think:) Comments are ALWAYS welcome!! Hope you all have a wonderful week!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Why Start My Own Home-Based Business?
This is such a huge question and one I need to always keep in front of me! Success definitely comes from within yourself. Well, not always, I mean...I couldn't be a successful professional football player no matter how much I may want to be (I don't really, but only example I could come up with at this time of night). Size for one is definitely not on my side, and the fact that I'm a 35 year old female doesn't help either! However, if you really want to accomplish something in life for yourself and be successful, YOU MUST KNOW YOUR WHY! I've heard this before, but then was sent this awesome ebook ("Success in 10 Steps Where You Learn How to Think Not What to Think by Michael Dlouhy) and started reading it tonight and it reminded me how important this really is! So thank you Vikki Lawson for sharing the ebook with me!
You really need a strong "WHY" and need it to be written down somewhere you will often see it, in order to stick to your goals. This way you keep going no matter how tough times may get. So for this blog, I wanted to share my "WHY's"!
Why I want to be successful in my home-based business:
My #1 "WHY" is definitely my family. The reason I was drawn to network marketing was to have more time with my family. I want to be able to be there for my girls, they grow up so fast! They are only 2 and 4 years old right now, I don't want to miss a thing. I also want to have a lot of time with my husband, alone and with the girls!
My #2 reason is to be able to take some of the pressure off of my husband as he has been our only income since I quit my last sales job last August. He does well enough that I am fortunate enough to not work. But I've always worked, before kids I was a work-a-holic! Always sales, but I got burned out on sales. I wanted something that would give me more flexibility to be with my family, but still give me a way to help bring in extra income and in a way that I could feel good about doing it.
My #3 reason is to help other people be successful for themselves. I would love to learn to be a great Mentor to others and the heavy hitters "sales" approach I have worked with before never felt like the right fit for me. I like the idea of a coach MUCH better! In fact, as one of my earlier blogs told, after finding myself lost in the last network marketing company because I felt their way of doing it didn't fit me and I was not successful because of it, I looked into becoming a personal trainer. I LOVE working out and learning about health and wellness. I thought that might be a great way to help others feel better and be successful...however, I realized in order to be successful I would have to work a lot of hours, therefore going against my #1 Why!
So, writing down my top 3 reasons "WHY" brings me back to network marketing. However, it's with a different company who has a different approach...Servant Leadership as they call it! The leaders and company are there to mentor you to your success to reach your "WHY". They have created a comp plan and system to help part-timers make money too, not just the top 2% leaders! Therefore, part-timers also see success. That's where I fit in for right now...long-term, I want to make a lot more money. But for now, I'm a part-timer looking to make extra money each month for my family, spend more time with my family, and build some awesome relationships with the team in my company and those who join me!
So there's my "WHY's". I've definitely put them in writing and put them out there, you can see how passionate I am about them! I'd love to hear, what's your why? Email me at mnicholsonww@yahoo.com
You really need a strong "WHY" and need it to be written down somewhere you will often see it, in order to stick to your goals. This way you keep going no matter how tough times may get. So for this blog, I wanted to share my "WHY's"!
Why I want to be successful in my home-based business:
My #1 "WHY" is definitely my family. The reason I was drawn to network marketing was to have more time with my family. I want to be able to be there for my girls, they grow up so fast! They are only 2 and 4 years old right now, I don't want to miss a thing. I also want to have a lot of time with my husband, alone and with the girls!
My #2 reason is to be able to take some of the pressure off of my husband as he has been our only income since I quit my last sales job last August. He does well enough that I am fortunate enough to not work. But I've always worked, before kids I was a work-a-holic! Always sales, but I got burned out on sales. I wanted something that would give me more flexibility to be with my family, but still give me a way to help bring in extra income and in a way that I could feel good about doing it.
My #3 reason is to help other people be successful for themselves. I would love to learn to be a great Mentor to others and the heavy hitters "sales" approach I have worked with before never felt like the right fit for me. I like the idea of a coach MUCH better! In fact, as one of my earlier blogs told, after finding myself lost in the last network marketing company because I felt their way of doing it didn't fit me and I was not successful because of it, I looked into becoming a personal trainer. I LOVE working out and learning about health and wellness. I thought that might be a great way to help others feel better and be successful...however, I realized in order to be successful I would have to work a lot of hours, therefore going against my #1 Why!
So, writing down my top 3 reasons "WHY" brings me back to network marketing. However, it's with a different company who has a different approach...Servant Leadership as they call it! The leaders and company are there to mentor you to your success to reach your "WHY". They have created a comp plan and system to help part-timers make money too, not just the top 2% leaders! Therefore, part-timers also see success. That's where I fit in for right now...long-term, I want to make a lot more money. But for now, I'm a part-timer looking to make extra money each month for my family, spend more time with my family, and build some awesome relationships with the team in my company and those who join me!
So there's my "WHY's". I've definitely put them in writing and put them out there, you can see how passionate I am about them! I'd love to hear, what's your why? Email me at mnicholsonww@yahoo.com
Friday, May 14, 2010
My Next Move!!
Ok, so in my last post I updated on how I've really been working hard on working out and watching what I eat and seeing some great results! That's just part of the transformation I've been taking in the last 4-5 months. I went through a little phase of being down about my home-based business with Zrii. I am ready to write about it, what I learned and where I'm going!
Zrii was my first try at a home-based business, I was SO excited about it and love what I learned from the people and opportunity. I am one who believes you have to try new things, sometimes they don't work out the way you'd like, but as long as you learn and grow from it...then it's TOTALLY worth it!! HMG is an amazing group of people and I did learn a great deal from them. Zrii is a great company, still love their products and what the company is all about. However, I found myself getting very frustrated in trying to grow my business. When I started, the Binary Comp plan sounded fantastic...as I got into it, it just seemed to be frustrating to me and a lot more work than I was looking for (I'll be honest, not looking to work 40+ hours a week right now...maybe in a few years).
Just a little update on my background and what brought me to home-based business...I have always been more of a work-a-holic. Then I had two beautiful baby girls who fill my life with so much joy and who made me realize time goes WAY TOO FAST! Especially seeing them grow up. I am so blessed to have a husband who has a great job and makes enough that I could take the opportunity to quit my sales job that was more stressful than enoyable at the time and have more time with my girls. I made this decision because I had got into the opportunity with the Hager Marketing Group. I thought I had found my answer! I worked really hard for the first few months, too hard...started to get away from my reason for quitting my job. I was fighting with my husband and spending way too much family time on phone calls and meetings. I had to make a decision...it was easy...my family comes first now, not work or any money that comes with it! I didn't quit Zrii, but I stopped doing the training calls and stopped talking about it as much on Facebook or to anyone and still collect paychecks, which is cool. I started to put my energy into my workouts and my family...just one thing still missing...I do want something to bring in some extra money and a little job. But it has to be from home, on my own time...not my families time...and I have to be passionate about what I'm doing!
There's an awesome video I'd also like to share. It is by Tim Sales, talking about "do most people fail in network marketing?" You can watch it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0--zrVzemw. I highly recommend checking it out if you have tried network marketing, are currently in it, or have just considered it!
This video really hit home with me, I didn't fail, I chose to quit the one I was doing because it wasn't feeling right for me...but I didn't quit, I kept looking for one that fit me better. I have met some amazing people in the network marketing industry who are so inspiring and who do make a great living for their families working from home and yet have more time with their families. I don't want to give up on that as something I want to do.
I have found an amazing company that I am so excited to be part of. I chose this company for a handful of reasons. One, it's a new company, only 3 months old...so great timing to get in now! Two, amazing people backing the company who are forward-thinking people and who want to make a company for the average Joe. As my mentor Travis Flaherty stated, "Revolucion was created under the premise that the average person, working part time from home can still succeed at building a future for their family. That is EXACTLY what we are seeing. More meaningful checks being paid out amongst the entire organization is what it's all about." This is for me! They have the amazing training calls everyday, mentor calls on Monday nights, product training calls on Wednesday nights. I still can't do those with the schedule my husband and I have with his job and the kids...but do you know what this company does, they record every one so you can go listen when the time is good for you to work (like after kiddos are in bed)!!! It's amazing:) Oh, and I didn't even mention that they now have Health Insurance available for their distributors (even with pre-existing conditions) and this week launched an AWESOME marketing tool like no other out there for Revolucion distributors! I'm getting trained on it this afternoon, so you will be hearing more on that!!! Still haven't said anything about their awesome products!
So as you can see from my little bit of rambling...I'm excited! I feel great from working out and keeping that a priority, I'm getting a lot of quality time with my husband and kids, and I'm excited about this opportunity I have been fortunate enough to find where I can build a home-based business that works for me! That's all for now, I'll get more info out as I continue to learn, learn, learn!!!
If you are interested in learning more about Revolucion, check out my website at www.melissanicholson.revolucionww.com for now...I'll have another one with a great video to watch after the training webinar this afternoon!!!
Zrii was my first try at a home-based business, I was SO excited about it and love what I learned from the people and opportunity. I am one who believes you have to try new things, sometimes they don't work out the way you'd like, but as long as you learn and grow from it...then it's TOTALLY worth it!! HMG is an amazing group of people and I did learn a great deal from them. Zrii is a great company, still love their products and what the company is all about. However, I found myself getting very frustrated in trying to grow my business. When I started, the Binary Comp plan sounded fantastic...as I got into it, it just seemed to be frustrating to me and a lot more work than I was looking for (I'll be honest, not looking to work 40+ hours a week right now...maybe in a few years).
Just a little update on my background and what brought me to home-based business...I have always been more of a work-a-holic. Then I had two beautiful baby girls who fill my life with so much joy and who made me realize time goes WAY TOO FAST! Especially seeing them grow up. I am so blessed to have a husband who has a great job and makes enough that I could take the opportunity to quit my sales job that was more stressful than enoyable at the time and have more time with my girls. I made this decision because I had got into the opportunity with the Hager Marketing Group. I thought I had found my answer! I worked really hard for the first few months, too hard...started to get away from my reason for quitting my job. I was fighting with my husband and spending way too much family time on phone calls and meetings. I had to make a decision...it was easy...my family comes first now, not work or any money that comes with it! I didn't quit Zrii, but I stopped doing the training calls and stopped talking about it as much on Facebook or to anyone and still collect paychecks, which is cool. I started to put my energy into my workouts and my family...just one thing still missing...I do want something to bring in some extra money and a little job. But it has to be from home, on my own time...not my families time...and I have to be passionate about what I'm doing!
There's an awesome video I'd also like to share. It is by Tim Sales, talking about "do most people fail in network marketing?" You can watch it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0--zrVzemw. I highly recommend checking it out if you have tried network marketing, are currently in it, or have just considered it!
This video really hit home with me, I didn't fail, I chose to quit the one I was doing because it wasn't feeling right for me...but I didn't quit, I kept looking for one that fit me better. I have met some amazing people in the network marketing industry who are so inspiring and who do make a great living for their families working from home and yet have more time with their families. I don't want to give up on that as something I want to do.
I have found an amazing company that I am so excited to be part of. I chose this company for a handful of reasons. One, it's a new company, only 3 months old...so great timing to get in now! Two, amazing people backing the company who are forward-thinking people and who want to make a company for the average Joe. As my mentor Travis Flaherty stated, "Revolucion was created under the premise that the average person, working part time from home can still succeed at building a future for their family. That is EXACTLY what we are seeing. More meaningful checks being paid out amongst the entire organization is what it's all about." This is for me! They have the amazing training calls everyday, mentor calls on Monday nights, product training calls on Wednesday nights. I still can't do those with the schedule my husband and I have with his job and the kids...but do you know what this company does, they record every one so you can go listen when the time is good for you to work (like after kiddos are in bed)!!! It's amazing:) Oh, and I didn't even mention that they now have Health Insurance available for their distributors (even with pre-existing conditions) and this week launched an AWESOME marketing tool like no other out there for Revolucion distributors! I'm getting trained on it this afternoon, so you will be hearing more on that!!! Still haven't said anything about their awesome products!
So as you can see from my little bit of rambling...I'm excited! I feel great from working out and keeping that a priority, I'm getting a lot of quality time with my husband and kids, and I'm excited about this opportunity I have been fortunate enough to find where I can build a home-based business that works for me! That's all for now, I'll get more info out as I continue to learn, learn, learn!!!
If you are interested in learning more about Revolucion, check out my website at www.melissanicholson.revolucionww.com for now...I'll have another one with a great video to watch after the training webinar this afternoon!!!
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